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- June 20, 2018
# Podcast 174: Make Something by Hand that You’d Ordinarily Buy, Throw a “Take My Stuff” Party, and Are You More Interested in the Event or Company?
Happier with Gretchen Rubin
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Ep. 174: Make Something by Hand
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EPISODE NOTES
### **Update**
Many people reported that [episode 169’s](/podcast-episode/169-happier-stop-talking-strategy-joanna-coles) Try This at Home strategy to “stop talking” worked very well for them.
#### **Try This at Home**
Make something by hand that you’d ordinarily buy.
In *[Happier at Home](/books/happier-at-home/about-the-book/),* I explore why there’s something special about creating something with your own hands.
#### **Happiness Hack**
Organize a “Take My Stuff” party where you let all your friends take away anything they want from the things you’re giving away.
#### **Know Yourself** **Better**
As you’re making particular plans, what’s more important to you: the *event* or the *company*?
#### **Listener Question**
In [episode 167](/podcast-episode/167-happier-home-tourist), we discussed the “Season of Stress.” Michael asks, “How do you deal with the restlessness and anxiety that can strike after a Season of Stress ends?”
Elizabeth mentions an interview in [episode 51](http://happierinhollywood.com/episode51/) of [*Happier in Hollywood*](/2017/05/happier-in-hollywood-podcast), where Sheila Melody distinguishes between working “on the business” and working “in the business.”
We also mention two excellent podcasts: Chris Guillebeau’s [*Side Hustle School*](https://sidehustleschool.com/podcasts/) as well as [*StartUp*](http://www.gimletmedia.com/startup).
**Elizabeth’s Demerit:** Elizabeth agonized for weeks about whether to go to her college reunion, instead of making the decision and sticking to it.
**Gretchen’s Gold Star**: I give a gold star to my daughter Eliza, for her **project on Instagram called “[TimesILikedMe](https://www.instagram.com/timesilikedme/).**” She describes it in [episode 89](https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/eliza-starting-at-16/id1056806706?mt=2#) of her podcast [*Eliza Starting at 16*](https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/eliza-starting-at-16/id1056806706?mt=2). She decided to start this page for the teen/20-something crowd where people could send her their photos, and she’d post them. To find it, search for the account “**timesIlikedme**.” To send her a photo to include, DM or tag her. If you’re in that stage of life, or you know people who are, check it out.
#### **Resources**
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